Do Autistic Kids Live with Parents Forever? Here’s the Reality

Many parents ask, do autistic kids live with parents forever? The short answer: not always. While a significant number of autistic adults live with their parents longer than neurotypical peers, many achieve varying levels of independence or supported living.

How Common Is It?

Statistics show about 80% of young autistic adults live with their parents shortly after high school. Only 5% to 20% live fully independently, depending on individual abilities and available support.

What Affects Living Arrangements?

Several key factors influence whether an autistic person lives independently or with family:

• Support needs: Those with higher support needs often continue living with family or in assisted settings.
  
  
• Communication and life skills: Stronger skills increase chances of independent living.
  
  
• Access to services: Vocational training, housing options, and social support help develop autonomy.
  
  
• Personal preferences: Some autistic adults prefer living with family for comfort and familiarity.
  
  

Paths Beyond Living at Home

Many autistic adults live in supported housing, group homes, or with roommates. These options balance independence with support. For others, full residential care may be necessary depending on medical or safety needs.

Research finds that only one in five autistic young adults live independently. The journey to independence often requires early intervention, ABA therapy, and community programs focused on life skills.

Building Independence with Apex ABA

At Apex ABA, we support autistic children and families in developing the skills needed for their best future—whether that means living independently or with family support. Our personalized ABA therapy focuses on strengthening life skills and confidence for the journey ahead. Reach out today to start your child’s path to independence with our expert care.

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Sources:

1. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36519265/
2. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35570334/

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